Saturday, August 07, 2010

PRESERVING MARRIAGE

Wives, be subject to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.  Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them (emphasis mine, Colossians 3:18-19).

Way back in1987, Olin Hicks wrote a book called, What the Bible Says About Marriage, Divorce and Remarriage.  His book was instructive to me and I have used it as a reference many times.  In his book he affirmed some thoughts that I was already thinking; it is always good to be affirmed by a real scholar.  I'm sharing a quote from his book.

A marriage that is serving the purposes God intended marriage to serve will indeed be unbreakable, not for legal reasons but for emotional reasons.  The partners in that marriage simply will not separate.  A marriage that is failing to serve those purposes cannot be held together by the edicts of pope, priest, elder or preacher.  For too long church leaders have been treating the symptom and not the illness itself.  In most cases the "medicine" prescribed seems more harmful to the patient than to the disease.

Our Father's Blessings,
Tom

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